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To  all Physicians, Specialists, and Doctors  alike    Now this patient has decided to carry her  baby to term. Her baby is born and she comes to you to “repair” or “fix” what’s wrong with her child. You are now medically inclined to say “it’s  trisomy 13” or “too many abnormalities”. Don’t think to yourself “what’s the  point, there’s no hope”. Rather, think of the other “normal” children that  face these different medical problems every day that you can  “fix”. Please don’t think of this child any less than any  other child that may have a heart condition, cleft palate, or any other  problem. Please remember that this family has come to you at one of the most  vulnerable times of their life. Realizing that you as a doctor have been given  a wonderful gift of “fixing” people, aren’t all patients deserving of that  gift?     Instead of the mindset that these children are  not worth saving due to their chromosomal problem, stop and rethink things a  bit. Please don’t think of these children as a burden to the medical community, but rather as a true lesson in humanity and compassion. Please remember that no one will ever know what could have been if you never even gave the effort.      All this family asks is that  you at least try. Please do not give up on this child! Please do all you can  and know that the family will be eternally grateful, even if the outcome is  not what they had hoped for. Remember that these “abnormalities” show no mercy  to anyone. It doesn’t matter what age, race or social status you are. You may  also find yourself one day with someone you love with a chromosomal  problem.      Please remember that these issues  could affect any one at any time. Please remember this before you say “I will  not operate on this child”. If it was your own child, what would you do then?  Please take a moment to remember what drove you into this profession. Wasn’t  it the passion, love and need to help and heal people regardless of the  situation? Please try to never forget that no matter how long you’ve been  practicing medicine.     Please know that your kindness,  compassion and medical expertise when dealing with this family is greatly appreciated. When you choose to help this family, you are giving back the  gift that was so generously given to you……….Life!!!   Thank you and  God Bless! Samuel’s mom, Mary Mabeus Click here for Samuel's page

"I believe that I have never seen the glory of God and the beauty of  humanity more than through the lives of these babies and children and  their parents." ~ E.H.T, MD San Antonio, TX Physician's Home Not Compatible with Life, a diary of keeping Daniel By Kylie Sheffield Prenatal Diagnosis Information Package - Compiled by Kylie Sheffield (mum of Daniel, full Trisomy 13) in consultation with families on this web site LINKS FOR PROFESSIONALS FROM MEDICAL AUTHORITIES Lethal Language Lethal Decisions By Tracy K. Koogler, Benjamin S. Wilfond, and Lainie Friedman Ross © The Hastings Center. Reprinted with permission. This article originally appeared in the Hastings Center Report, vol. 33, no. 2 (2003),” Editorial email: editorial@thehastingscenter.org. Intensive cardiac management in patients with trisomy 13 or trisomy 18 Am J Med Genet Part A. *Intensive cardiac management consisting of pharmacological intervention for ductal patency and cardiac surgery was demonstrated to improve survival in patients with trisomy 13 or trisomy 18 in this series. Therefore, we suggest that this approach is a treatment option for cardiac lesions associated with these trisomies. These data are helpful for clinicians and families to consider in the optimal treatment of patients with these trisomies. Show Me the Money: Financial Considerations in Responding to Parental Wishes. Benjamin S. Wilfond, MD, head of Ethics of Seattle Children's Hospital Watch the Webcast View presentation (PDF 425KB) Noninitiation or Withdrawal of Intensive Care for High-Risk Newborns From the American Academy of Pediatrics Committee on Fetus and Newborn Organizational Principles to Guide and Define the Child Health Care System and/or Improve the Health of All Children Amniocentesis: The Struggle to Choose By Wendy Hogarth, Mother to Jared diagnosed with trisomy 13 at birth. Post-Viability Abortions Patricia Lee June, M.D, Pediatrician and PPL board member WHAT TESTS SHOULD BE DONE ONCE MY CHILD IS DIAGNOSED WITH TRISOMY 13? By Christine Nelson MD, Pediatric Hospitalist The parents' journey: continuing a pregnancy after a diagnosis of Patau's syndrome By Louise Locock, senior qualitative researcher, Jane & Jon Crawford, parents of Benjamin Values  in End-of-Life Decision-Making:  Some Implications for People with  Disability By Jennifer Fitzgerald , Barrister of the Supreme Court of NSW. Giving Terminally Ill Babies and Their Families an Alternative to Abortion By Liz Townsend PRENATAL DIAGNOSIS: FEARS & EXPECTATIONS by Agneta Sutton, Head of Research The Centre for Bioethics and Public Policy Post-viability abortions by Pediatrician Patricia Lee June, M.D. Clinical Case - Patau Syndrome and Perinatal Decision Making Ethics Journal of the American Medical Association  May 2005, Volume 7 Trisomy 13 Facts & A Guide for Professionals  From the Support Organization for Trisomy  18, 13 and Related Disorders A Different Kind of Crisis Pregnancy: When There is “Bad News” About Baby By Monica Rafie Understanding Grief: A Component of Neonatal Palliative Care By Tricia L. Romesberg, MSN, CNNP Disability Matters - Blog - Institute for the Study of Disabilities & Bioethics Dr. Mark Mostert, from Johannesburg, South Africa, is co director of Regent University’s Institute for the Study of Disability and Bioethics. Articles on Eugenics, Ethics, Selective Abortion, Selective Induction and the killing of Disabled Children Personal Qualms Don't Count: Hospital Forces Nurses To Participate In Genetic Terminations  by MARNIE KO ESSAYS BY TRISOMY 13 PARENTS Free literature to share with your patients WHEN WHAT SEEMS BROKEN IS PERFECT By Barbara Farlow (Annie's Mom) PATIENT CENTERED CARE Barbara Farlow, mom to Annie spoke at the University of Toronto in the First Annual Sue MacRae Lecture On Ethics and Patient-Centred Care on June 11th, 2008 CLICK TO VIEW NOW The decision to accept disability: One family’s perspective By Barbara Farlow BEngSci MBA A Letter to: Pediatric Physicians, OB-Gynecologists, Geneticists & Healthcare Providers, from ThereseAnn - A parent of a Trisomy 13 child How Our Babies have changed our Lives by Maria Demers Trisomy 13 ~ A Printable Handout A Mother's letter to newly diagnosed Families (Printable to have on hand in your office to give to patients) by Julie Sexton Message to All Obstetricians & Perinatologists Message to  All Physicians, Specialists, and Doctors Alike  by Mary Mabeus Letters to Physicians -Trisomy 13 Survival Tactics -Patients Plan of Care - Faith in Action -Considerations in Making a Specified Plan of Care by Janina E. Arritola How can anyone say that these children do not contribute to society, therefore what is the point? by Melissa Roy Website & Articles for Surgical Procedures for those opting for medical intervention for specific abnormalities. What is an Omphalocele? The method of delivery will be discussed with you as the time gets closer. The method of delivery is dependent on the size of the omphalocele. If the size is quite large and especially if the liver is involved, the doctor may prefer to do a cesarean section (c-section) to avoid the risk of injury to the liver. Otherwise, the preferred method of delivery is vaginal." Decompressive cranioplasty may improve the clinical symptoms of children with mild trigonocephaly and intracranial pressure: report of 56 patients - June 5 2004 Mild trigonocephaly with clinical symptoms:  analysis of surgical results in 65 patients - June 5 2004 Termination, Abortion the only choice? (A must read for Physician’s who advise parents after early testing and prenatal diagnosis) These women share the immense pain a termination has left on their lives. When counseled by Professionals they were offered no hope. They were not given the option of carrying to term and holding their child, if even briefly. Nor offered the compassionate support this diagnosis requires. Instead these women felt they had to make the heart breaking choice to end their child’s life. - - - A Story of Regret - "Maybe if the professionals we had talked to had given us more information we would have made a different choice. To this day, I still live with the pain of the choices we made. Trisomy needs to have a bigger voice and all the professionals need to be more open minded and not so much on terminating"  ~Katie - Full Story - - - "It is a choice I cannot live with to this day.  I look at these pictures, read your stories and my heart aches.  Since I had a D&E, I never even got to see or hold my daughter." ~Laurie-Beth Full Story - - - After experiencing the effects of an abortion with a previous pregnancy, Elizabeth shares her experiences with carrying to term a child with Patau Syndrome - Trisomy 13. ~Elisabeth Slotkin Full Story - - - This is a portion of a speech given by Eagle Forum Alaska  President, Debbie Joslin on the capitol steps, January 22, 2008  Full Story

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