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Special Information & Support for
Families with a Prenatal Diagnosis of Trisomy 13
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Immediate Support |
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Just diagnosed with a Trisomy child? Are you asking yourself what to
do first? Do you want to talk with someone as soon as possible?
Please click here. |
There are many sites on the Internet with
information on Chromosome 13, Patau Syndrome and Trisomy 13. Some OBGYN
Physicians, Perinatologist (medical specialist) and Genetic Doctors give the
option of Abortion, Selective/Elective Termination and early Fetal induction
(inducing labor early where the baby is unable to survive) for these
precious infants...Yes, some of the Trisomy 13 syndrome - embryos,
fetuses, infants, babies, and children do not make it full term. However,
this site will show you many DO!
Research and fully inform yourself as to whether you want Hospice and
Palliative care or the needed medical intervention for your child at their
birth. *In all the families we have heard from over the years - not a single
one has ever expressed regret over choosing to carry to term so they can
meet their child - but we have heard from many who regret missing that
opportunity! While researching Patau Syndrome you will read or have already
been told:
"NO HOPE"
"Your child will never smile"
"Not compatible with life"
"Inappropriate to treat" |
"Incompatible with life"
"Failure to thrive"
"Multiple abnormalities" |
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"Survivors have profound and severe
mental and physical disabilities, they rarely survive"
"Survivors with Patau Syndrome exhibit severe mental retardation and
physical disabilities" |
This Living with Trisomy 13 site is here to share a DIFFERENT story
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family tells of the many blessings these Trisomy children bring.
We invite you to view our photo albums
with children living with Trisomy 13
and read the stories these families share about how they and their children
are growing in love. You may contact them as they are here to offer you
Support. These are some of the Trisomy 13 - Patau Syndrome Survivors.
Quick Links to Resources Below |
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Meet some
of our
Trisomy 13
Families who Provide Support |
Would you like to join some
Internet Online Message Boards? - access the YaHoo
message boards affiliated with this Living with Trisomy 13
site
To find other Trisomy Related Internet Online Support Boards
and Groups, click here
A
Mother's letter to newly diagnosed families
by
Julie Sexton (Paul's
mom)
Our
little Gemma
taught us how to love deeper, experience
gratitude, and treasure all of the gifts we have been given.
She blessed us with 52 minutes in our arms, before her
angels took her heavenly.
Are you questioning whether you can
handle a child like this? Are you in shock?
Elizabeth, mother of 8
children, shares her story, "Encouraging you to take the
road less taken"
Contact Elisabeth for support - The Slotkin Family
- Elisabeth was counseled
to abort her child with Trisomy 13. She chose to carry her
baby full term and tells of the blessing she received for
the brief time she had their Katie. She is available if you
have been recently diagnosed with carrying a Trisomy 13
child. You may call or e-mail her for support.
Click here to read the letter by Elisabeth Slotkin.
A father's perspective on having a Trisomy 13 child.
Beautiful photos of Katie narrated by her Dad, Steve Slotkin
Amaya Faith Lynch God's
plans are always perfect and we know that Amaya's life will
be used in a glorious way. We have already seen her make
such an impact on so many people...
Luke Steven Prothero We
had a whopping 8lbs 5oz boy, 3 days passed term, who
showered us with beauty and love for 58 hours and 13 mins,
if I could do it over a million times I could ask for no
more.
Devon communicates with a little
sign, gestures, PECS (Picture Exchange Communication System
ie: exchange a picture of a cookie for a cookie. Etc)…and
most recently with his newly acquired assistive
technology…his Tech Talk (compliments of
Noah’s Never Ending Rainbow).
Rebecca's family was not aware of
her trisomy 13 translocation diagnosis till she was 11 years
old. Because they weren't aware of the diagnosis, this
allowed her to have the craniofacial surgery when she was
eight-and-a-half months old. A procedure normally not
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Support & Links for Prenatal Diagnosis of Trisomy 13 |
Katherine Elizabeth Foundation
exists to provide Hope, Support, and Healing to the families
that have encountered a negative or fatal prenatal diagnosis
through the term of their pregnancy, after birth, or in the
event of a pregnancy loss through a miscarriage, stillbirth,
or newborn death. Liz mom to
Katherine was inspired
to begin this support Foundation.
Trisomy Oz Prenatal Support
A website inspired by the life of
Daniel Sean Sheffield.
Dedicated to all those with trisomy 13 and similar
disorders, whether they be long-term survivors or treasured
memories. And to any parent who has ever received a
difficult prenatal diagnosis. Trisomy Oz offers global
support and is based in Australia.
Fetal Development- 1st, 2nd and 3rd Trimester images
-Your infant will develop everything from limbs to vital
organs. Week by week
the changes are astounding! View to see what's happening
with your baby now!
Listen to your BABY - Fetal
Doppler Rentals

Be Not Afraid
is an online outreach to parents who
have received a poor or difficult prenatal diagnosis. The
family stories, articles, and links within this site are
presented as a resource for those who may have been asked to
choose between terminating a pregnancy or continuing on
despite the diagnosis. The families faced the same decision
and chose not to terminate. By sharing our experiences, we
hope to offer encouragement to those who may be afraid to
continue on. This site also provides -
a message board and
resources

In 2007, Benotafraid.net
affiliated with
Elizabeth
Ministry International, a movement of Catholic faithful primarily serving
women and their families through the joys, trials, and sorrows of their
child-bearing years. As a specialized Elizabeth Ministry affiliate, we continue
our mission of offering encouragement, information, and life-affirming support
to parents who receive "bad news" about baby through our website outreach. We
are very excited about this affiliation and will be looking forward to
developing new possibilities to serve families.
Prenatal Partners for Life
- Providing family
support, support links and encouragement for expectant parents or new parents of a special needs child. There are
few things more frightening in life than finding out your
baby may not be healthy. We are parents who have been through
similar circumstances and we want to offer our support. We
are here to help you, you are not alone!
Pre-Natal Support - Carrying to Term Resources
This site in very informative - I highly recommend reading
this page if you are recently diagnosed with a Trisomy 13 (Patau
Syndrome) child.
Lorie, has three Trisomy 13 support sites, with message
boards and chat
Kia's Site
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Trisomy 13 MSN Support Site -
Kia's
Tripod Site -
Kia's Song
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A very moving video of Samuel Steel Schwartz...Embracing
God's little Miracles.

Twin Support Are you
having twins? One or both diagnosed with Trisomy 13 - Patau
Syndrome? Gina, a trisomy 13 diagnosed twin- survived 9
days. She was born with a proboscis and could not breath on
her own, having no nose. She also had cyclopia, She liked to
be cuddled, and holding her was a pure joy, for she was
precious to me and I know she was precious in the sight of
God. Inspired by Angle Gina,
A Mother’s Heart Ministry
Offering support, compassion, encouragement and hope. Have
you experienced the death of a young baby or child?
Infertility, An Adverse Prenatal Diagnosis? Are you Choosing
to continue your pregnancy? Post Abortion Support, healing
from the wounds of Abortion. Support Groups.
Carrying to Term When your Baby has a Serious Diagnosis -
Resources and Support
http://www.graceannenugent.netfirms.com/resources.html

http://www.t18moms.com/guests/CarrytoTerm.pdf

Carry
to Term with a Negative Prenatal Diagnosis -
Coping with Grief, Finding Help, Why Carry to Term?, Common
Fears, and message board.
Tips on creating your own memorial website
My Child, My Gift: A Positive Response to Serious Prenatal
Diagnosis
A well-researched yet easily understandable, positive guide
when you need to make sense out of what seems to be
senseless.
Baby
Center Continuing a Pregnancy with Poor Prenatal Diagnosis
- Carrying To
Term Tips, Site Links and more, Carrying to Term 101 - A "Must Have" if you
are Carrying to Term (brochure)
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Birth Plans - Treatment for Trisomy 13 – Patau Syndrome
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-- Birth Plans - AGGRESSIVE TREATMENT--
What is Aggressive Treatment? ~Treating specific
individual and specific related issues one at a time.
Josiah's family (phone contact
available) does not believe in "compassionate care". That is
a term coined to let your child die. We believe in taking
care of your child as though we would care for any of our
other children. Full Story off their own
website
Natalia’s family
did not know prenatally of her diagnosis. Surprised at birth
faced with the choice to allow her to die or aggressively
treat - there was no question. “We would treat her the same
way we were treat any of our other children, if in a car
accident and needed medical intervention. She deserved the
same chance at life, her unique life” We believe with the
advances in medicine and powerful prayer, anything is
possible. With Faith in God and accepting his never ending
grace and mercy, we knew we could travel this journey of the
unknown, just as we do with our typical children. If she was
meant to survive, we knew God would sustain us. Natalia’s
had several surgeries and come through them all beautifully.
Pain meds help with the initial post surgery pain just as
you would give to any child or adult. She has a content and
happy demeanor and her smile lights up a room!
Katherine's Birth Plan
We made a firm decision to carry our baby to term and keep
her alive as long as possible, doing what is medically
necessary to treat her various conditions with the end goal
of bringing her home alive.
Birth Plan
for Samuel Charles Mabeus
Our
Son was diagnosed with Mosaic Trisomy 13 at approx 18 weeks
gestation. As of this day, no abnormalities have been found
by our Perinatologist via ultrasound. We want our Son
treated aggressively.
-- Birth Plans- Comfort Care –
PALLATIVE CARE --
Gemma’s Birth Plan
(Gemma’s
mom gemmatherese@yahoo.com has compiled many birth plans
available on the internet)
Kia’s
Birth Plan
Are you in
shock, devastated and can't believe this is happening to you
...Not quite sure you are ready to raise a special needs
child? Know you are not alone and be not afraid of the
unknown. With Courage and Grace you can bring your child to
term and lovingly share some precious moments. Many of these
children do survive till birth...It is then that you will
need to make more decisions. Here you can see how Lorie and
Gaymond put together a BirthPlan for the immediate care of
Kia at her birth.
Grace Anne's Birth Plan
diagnosed
prenatally with Trisomy 18 - Edwards Syndrome. Both Patau &
Edward Syndrome share the same "incompatible with life"
diagnosis. Grace Anne was born by elective C-section and
lived for 62 days. We got much more than we ever dreamed.
Trisomy
13 Planning Pages – Making a Birth Plan – Preparing for a
Plan of Care Conference
Cornerstone Communities of Emmanuels Foundation
(EF)
offer support, friendships and guidance to families in a
pregnancy or with an infant having a rare or difficult
medical diagnosis; EF helps families to tap into community
resources to meet emotional, spiritual and medical needs in
a timely manner. Building stronger communities, striving
together to support families through critical issues,
companion parents in their emotional journey and encourage
parents to be their child's best advocate. Cornerstone
Communities are more than just EF volunteers helping
families; it is network of independent organizations that
offer their time and talent to support families in various
situations. EF facilitates Affiliates, Sponsors and also
external links to world wide community resources while
providing a centralized forum for communication. PDF
Brochure ; PDF
About Us Package
FAQ Frequently Asked Questions Finding Support Resources for
your Special Needs Child
Federal & State Programs, Early Intervention,
Financial Assistance Programs and more resources for
disability related issues. |
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Complimentary Nationwide
Services & Special moments captured in PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY |
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CaringBridge Free, personalized websites that support
and connect loved ones during critical illness, treatment and
recovery. A wonderful way to keep your relatives and friends
updated of the day to day experience of Living with a Trisomy 13
diagnosed genetic profile, sharing your journey. We can link to
your CaringBridge website off your child’s LWT13 album page.
Not Compatible with Life, a diary of keeping Daniel, By Kylie Sheffield
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Kylie (mom to Daniel) would love to share her book with you.
Please email her for more information.
shefs@aapt.net.au
FREE
Gemma's Bears
are intended to be a gift of love for babies and families who have been
given the difficult diagnosis of Trisomy 13 or 18, both of which are
considered by most doctors to be fatal, although some babies can and do
survive. It is our hope that through these gifts of love, the parents of
these special children will remember that their child, is indeed a precious
"Child of God". To receive your gift of love inspired by Gemma
click here .
The American Child
Charity Photographers Guild
- A non-profit, volunteer based organization of
child photographers from all over the country who have come together to
form a guild dedicated to children in need and their families. They include
nearly 300 photographers and collectively provide families in need with
thousands of fine art portraits, capturing and preserving tender moments of
their young lives.
Katherine Elizabeth Foundation Providing hope,
support, and healing to the families. We'd love to send you a Bunny.
Kambry's
Light
- lighting the way for families experiencing prenatal lethal diagnosis

The mission of
A Butterfly’s Touch
is to share the compassion of Jesus Christ by providing support to
parents experiencing infant-loss during their time of need. We accomplish
this by providing memory boxes and remembrances for the parents; providing
information and support through our free lending library and; helping to
lessen financial burdens through a fund to help with funeral and burial
expenses.
Footprints
Photography
- Provides desperately ill infants and children in their
areas with terminal illnesses with complimentary portrait sessions.
Now I Lay Me Down
to Sleep - Infant Bereavement Photography
- A nationwide 501 (c)(3) non
profit organization. No fees for the Photography services. The
soft, gentle heirloom photographs of these beautiful babies are an important
part of the healing process. They allow families to honor and cherish their
babies, and share the spirits of their lives. (See the beautiful
photos they did for our treasured memory
Gabriel Olson)
Soulumination
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celebrates the lives of children facing life threatening illnesses by
providing professional photographs—free of charge—of these children and
their families. Puget Sound
area, Canada, New Jersey, and Oklahoma. We are a small non-profit
organization located in Seattle, Washington.
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Adoption, Finding Doctors and Other
Services |
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Click here for a referral list
of Doctor's/Physician's & Midwives that have worked with our Trisomy Children.
Adoption and Home Schooling
Special Kids
(NATional Challenged Homeschoolers Associated
Network).
They have an "arm" called CHASK (CHRISTIAN HOMES AND SPECIAL
KIDS) which matches people who have, or are expecting, special
needs children they feel unable to care for with Christian
families eager to adopt them.
Continuing Adoption support newsletter.
CHASK - Christian Homes And
Special Kids
Adoption Resources - They match parents wanting to care
for/adopt special needs babies/children (even if the
baby/child has a poor prognosis) with parents/expectant
parents needing a home for their child.
call: Birth Parent's Line 1-800-266-9837 Contact CHASK
208-267-6246
Meet two of our Trisomy 13 children who have been lovingly
adopted.
Mollie Faith Havlik and
Joey Lane Huddleston Reite |
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Crisis
Pregnancy Support -
Support for Single and Unwed mothers |
Presbyterians Pro-Life Research,
Education and Care, Inc.
...committed to restoring the
Church's witness and ministry in response to questions about
life.Other Pro-life sites
Helpful Resources for parents
who have received a
serious prenatal diagnosis.
LIFECALL Resources for Pregnant Women and Their
Babies - NATIONAL CONTACTS Directory of Shelters for
Pregnant Women - Through God's Grace, we save babies lives
and shelter their young mothers while providing education
and ongoing compassionate support services. We further
educate young people to make healthy life choices. We also
shelter women who are homeless, sick and elderly and we help
them to restore their dignity. |
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Bringing a “not viable,” “incompatible with life” diagnosis to Term – Prenatal Hospice - Perinatal Hospice - Palliative Care - Comfort Care
-Interruption (women choosing to
interrupt their pregnancies) |
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Helping families with infants
who have fatal or serious birth defects for which selective
termination and late term abortion is sometimes recommended.
Perinatal Hospice Movie (Choices Medical Clinic)
A physician's practice which specializes in saving babies
from violence of abortion.
Choices
Medical Clinic
empowers women to avoid having an abortion by providing
prenatal medical care, social services, education, practical
support and adoption information - all at no charge! As the
only medical clinic in Kansas specializing in unplanned
pregnancy, and one of only a handful in the United States,
our location next door to a nationally recognized late-term
abortionist provides us with even greater opportunities to
serve mothers and their families at this critical point in
their lives. Our team of physicians, nurses, social
workers and other trained volunteers specialize in offering
confidential, individualized care and compassion in
assisting mothers and families in making God-honoring,
life-affirming decisions. We hope to provide the best
choice-the only choice that makes sense and the only choice
that gives life.
Perinatal hospice/palliative care programs and services
A perinatal hospice approach walks with these families
on their journey through pregnancy, birth and death,
honoring the baby as well as the baby's family. Even in
areas without a formal program, health professionals and
family and friends can offer support in the spirit of
hospice

Prenatal Hospice
- It
is a multi-disciplinary approach to helping families with
infants who have fatal or serious birth defects for which
late term abortion is sometimes recommended. It is the Life
Affirming, Positive and God-honoring way to care for a baby
that will die during birth or shortly thereafter.
Comfort
Care - Palliative Care vs DNR
- Providing a resource for
professionals, patients and their families regarding
end-of-life decisions. Whether the decision is about CPR,
artificial feeding tubes, hospice, living wills, nursing
home placement, ventilators or dialysis, these decisions can
be difficult.
Prenatal
Hospice : A gift of time.
Resources for continuing a pregnancy
following a
terminal prenatal diagnosis.
Alexandra's House
- is a charitable perinatal-infant
hospice house and refuge for abandoned or neglected babies.
Our first focus is to provide spiritual, grief and practical
support to families pregnant with terminally ill babies and
for families whose babies are diagnosed later with a
terminal illness. We attend medical visits, develop
compassionate and comprehensive birth plans, go to labor and
delivery, maintain vigils through the babies' death, bathe
and dress the babies, and participate in funerals and in
long-term bereavement care.
Choices
Enabling women to avoid abortion by providing
for their medical social spiritual and practical needs. This
program is Life Affirming, Positive and God-honoring way to
car for a baby that will die during birth or shortly
thereafter.
Trinity Hospice Physical, Emotional & Spiritual
Care
Perinatal hospice/palliative care programs and services
As prenatal testing becomes increasingly routine, more
parents are learning devastating news before their babies
are born. In too many places, the ability to diagnose has
raced ahead of the ability to care for these families and
their babies. But in a beautiful and practical response,
some pioneering hospitals and hospices around the country
are starting perinatal hospice or perinatal palliative care
programs for families who wish to continue their pregnancies
with babies who likely will die before, during, or after
birth.
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Surgical Procedures and Aggressive Medical Treatment Support for those opting for medical intervention for specific abnormalities.
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Intensive cardiac management in patients with trisomy 13 or
trisomy 18
Am J Med Genet Part A. -*Intensive cardiac management
consisting of pharmacological intervention for ductal
patency and cardiac surgery was demonstrated to improve
survival in patients with trisomy 13 or trisomy 18 in this
series. Therefore, we suggest that this approach is a
treatment option for cardiac lesions associated with these
trisomies. These data are helpful for clinicians and
families to consider in the optimal treatment of patients
with these trisomies.
MiCleft
A cleft Advocate Pathfinder Partner Organization. The
MiCleft site and services herein, are available to everyone:
Persons born with a facial difference; Parents and family
members of a child with a facial difference; Childcare and
Medical Professionals; Students and the general public. Share
your cleft lip smile
Holoprosencephaly (HPE) Support
- “If the parent understands what they’re getting into, the
risks, and the range of potential problems, I will help
them, no matter what. If they want to be aggressive, I will
support them, or if they just want palliative care, that is
okay as well. Most of the families that see me come because
they want treatment. They want to do the most that they can,
whatever that most is. I try to help those that choose to go
ahead with the pregnancy or those who did not have a
prenatal diagnosis.” Dr. Eric Levey, Kennedy Krieger
Institute
What is an Omphalocele?
The method of delivery will be discussed with you as the
time gets closer. The method of delivery is dependent on the
size of the omphalocele. If the size is quite large and
especially if the liver is involved, the doctor may prefer
to do a cesarean section (c-section) to avoid the risk of
injury to the liver. Otherwise, the preferred method of
delivery is vaginal."
Decompressive cranioplasty may improve the clinical symptoms
of children with mild trigonocephaly and intracranial pressure:
report of 56 patients - June 5 2004
Mild trigonocephaly with clinical symptoms:
analysis of surgical results in 65 patients
- June 5 2004
Congenital Heart Information Network - CHIN
- To
find the particular heart defect that you want information
about (as well as stories about the child and specific
treatment chosen) then select 'search' on the left column
and type in a few words to describe and it will bring up
stories, pictures and information pages to choose from.
Congenital Heart Disease
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Anatomic defects of the heart and great vessels produced at various stages
of fetal development and present at birth.
ATRIOVENTRICULAR
CANAL DEFECT, VENTRICULAR SEPTAL DEFECT, UNDERDEVELOPED
LEFT VENTRICLE SYNDROME, TETRALOGY OF FALLOT, TRANSPOSITION
OF THE GREAT ARTERIES, COMPLEX CYANOTIC CONGENITAL HEART
DISEASE, AORTIC VALVE STENOSIS, PULMONIC VALVE STENOSIS,
PERIPHERAL PULMONIC STENOSIS, PATENT DUCTUS ARTERIOSUS,
COARCTATION OF THE AORTA, PERSISTENT TRUNCUS ARTERIOSIS
Prenatal Partners for Life - Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia (CDH)
Stories - Survivor Stories and resource links to CDH Support
Real Hope for CDH
- Learn about The 92% Survival Rate for CDH Babies Born at Shands
Breath of Hope exists
to combat the congenital diaphragmatic hernia birth defect.
Breath of Hope Yahoo Group Message Board |
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Pregnancy - Selective & Early Induction - Elective Termination - Abortion - Fetal Reduction - Selective Fetocide - Therapeutic
Abortion - Termination for medical reasons - Elective Tx
- Interrupt Pregnancy |
A
Different Kind of Crisis Pregnancy: When There is “Bad News” About
Baby
Article
By Monica Rafie, founder and administrator of
BeNotAfraid.Net
Rachel’s Vineyard -
Healing the trauma of Abortion and Termination for medical Reasons
This is a wonderful support site and program for those who have had an
abortion, and for those who felt pressured to terminate for medical reasons.
Often there are many
Symptoms of Post-abortion trauma
- Helpful Resources -
Support for men

Forbidden
Grief The
Unspoken Pain of Abortion - It's time to move beyond the politics of
abortion.
For more than 30 years, our nation has argued about abortion. In that time,
over 30 million women have had one or more abortions.
While the political battle rages, little has been done to address the
emotional needs of those who struggle with feelings of grief, shame, guilt,
feeling judged by others. Instead, social taboos stifle discussion of
abortion-related feelings. Women are left feeling isolated, and their
recovery is inhibited.
Forbidden Grief provides the reader with the most up-to-date research on
abortion, and tells the inside story of the fight within the psychiatric
community to recognize post-abortion trauma.
Forbidden Grief is a compelling, haunting review of Dr. Theresa Burke's
experience in counseling hundreds of women for abortion-related emotional
problems. Dr. Burke exposes the obstacles in the way of post-abortion
healing, reviews the full range and depth of post-abortion adjustment
problems, and illustrates how we can create a more understanding and healing
society where women will no longer be required to hide their pain.
Prenatal Partners Second Thoughts Resources, Second Thoughts Stories

Silent No More
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Do you regret your abortion? Do you regret your termination? What are the
Goals of the Silent No More Awareness Campaign?
Educate the public that abortion is harmful emotionally, physically and
spiritually with lasting consequences.
ABC Link
This creative, national film commercial
is the first television public service announcement
concerning the abortion/breast cancer link. The goal is to
inform the public about the abortion/breast cancer link and
provide access to research. According to the commercial's
sponsor, Dr. Joel Brind of the Breast Cancer Prevention
Institute: "Over 40 years of research and 28 medical studies
show a significant link between abortion and breast cancer.
Studies show that the increased risk of breast cancer can be
50% or more."
Abortion Breast Cancer
- Women were never told about their findings. As of 2006,
eight medical organizations recognize that abortion raises a
woman's risk for breast cancer, independently of the risk of
delaying the birth of a first child (a secondary effect that
all experts already acknowledge). An additional medical
organization, the Association of American Physicians and
Surgeons, issued a statement in 2003 calling on doctors to
inform patients about a "highly plausible" relationship
between abortion and breast cancer. General counsel for that
medical group wrote an article for its journal warning
doctors that three women (two Americans, one Australian)
successfully sued their abortion providers for neglecting to
disclose the risks of breast cancer and emotional harm,
although none of the women had developed the disease.
Real Choice
- Abortion Methods, Graphic Photos,
Statistics, Laws, Links, Perinatal Hospice, Protecting
yourself and Your unborn child.
Concepts of Truth
- Hurting from Abortion? 24/7
Confidential Help – Phone support
National Helpline for Abortion Recovery - Men and Women
support
After abortion
Life after abortion : News, opinion, personal
experience, resources.
Real Choice - Trisomy 13, 18, & Related Disorders -
Links to information and support for parents whose child has
been diagnosed with Trisomy abnormality
Fr.
Frank Pavone has posted two videos on You Tube in which
he demonstrates the most common abortion procedures, using
the actual abortion instruments and fetal models. We ask you
to view and to spread far and wide these challenging videos.
The links are as follows:
Dismemberment D&E Procedure -
Suction Abortion Procedure |
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Genetics - Medical |
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Congenital Heart Information
Network
C.H.I.N. is an international organization that provides
reliable. information, support services and resources to families of
children with congenital heart defects and acquired heart disease, adults
with congenital heart defects, and the professionals who work with them.
Clinical Genetics - Patau Syndrome
National Electronic Library for Health
Pitfalls to Avoid
* Confirm diagnosis cytogenetically, do not rely on clinical diagnosis
* Recurrence risk is significantly increased if there is a translocation
which exists in one of the parent, therefore always check the parents
chromosomes if the child has a translocation form of trisomy 13
* Do not rely on rapid FISH results to exclude the diagnosis, always wait
for the full culture
* Never tell parents the child will not survive, 3% of children will
survive to six months and a small number are still alive at one year, this
may have a significant impact on their decisions about the pregnancy
* The absence of congenital heart disease does not necessarily
improve the prognosis, it is thought that many die due to central apnoea
* If possible surgery should be avoided until the karyotype is known as
this may influence decisions about management.
Clinical Genetic article (Full text -click here)

Rare /
Orphan Diseases
Patau Syndrome (Trisomy 13)
Extra copy of Chromosome 13
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Trisomy 13 and Ethics – Bioethics – Human Rights |
INSTITUTE FOR THE STUDY OF DISABILITY & BIOTHICS -
Regent University School of Education
A multinational response to medical and cultural trends impacting people
with disabilities.
Breaking News ,
Newsletters ,
Disability & Human Rights
&
Important Aspects |
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Wrong Diagnosis - Misdiagnosed |
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Families who were given a trisomy 13 genetic profile through
testing and/or genetic markers, and later to find out it was a misdiagnosis.
Living Album pages - Alicia Gartner,
Treasured Memory Album pages – Samuel Mabeus |
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Don't Miss..... |

Not Compatible with Life, a diary of keeping Daniel
By Kylie Sheffield
Kylie (mom to Daniel) would love to share her book with you.
Please email her for more information.
shefs@aapt.net.au |
Meet and talk to families who’ve experienced having a child with Trisomy 13 ~
Patau Syndrome.
LWT13 message boards. |
Prenatal Diagnosis Information
Package -
Compiled by Kylie Sheffield (mum of Daniel, full
Trisomy 13) in consultation with families on this web site |
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Many of our albums have informative and moving
Videos & Presentations |

Tangible Memories
msnbc video for babies who are likely not to survive birth - The Power of Baby
Photos |
Lethal Language Lethal Decisions
By Tracy K. Koogler, Benjamin S. Wilfond, and Lainie Friedman Ross
“Although many of the congenital syndromes that used to be lethal no longer are,
they are still routinely referred to as “lethal anomalies.” But the label is not
only inaccurate, it is also dangerous: by portraying as a medical determination
what is in fact a judgment about the child’s quality of life, it wrests from the
parents a decision that only the parents can make.” ©
The
Hastings Center. Reprinted with permission. This
article originally appeared in the Hastings Center Report, vol. 33, no. 2
(2003),” Editorial email:
editorial@thehastingscenter.org. |
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Why would a good God allow these type of things to happen? Click here to
listen to Larry's message about his son Nathan
(In Audio) http://www.chrisragsdale.com/ |
WHAT TESTS SHOULD BE DONE
ONCE MY CHILD IS DIAGNOSED
WITH TRISOMY 13?
By Christine Nelson MD, Pediatric Hospitalist |
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Perinatal hospice / palliative care programs and services |
Creating Priceless Memories and Keepsakes with your Baby
By Becca Bouligny |
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FREE Gemma's Bears a small gift of love for
families whose babies are newly diagnosed either prenatally or after birth with
trisomy 13 & 18. |
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FREE ~New Family
Package from SOFT |
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FREE Remembrance Photography
- infant bereavement photography |
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Click here for Doctor, Physician & Midwife
referrals |
A children's book - "Always My Twin"
for young
children who have experienced the death of their twin sibling. |
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SHORT QUOTES from our Albums |
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"Mitchell is really just a typical boy who
likes to play and have fun just like any other child. I want medical
professionals and healthcare providers to look at his video and learn that
his life is worth saving. Our doctors have been incredible. They are so
supportive and have always been cautiously optimistic about Mitchell, it
makes a world of difference." |
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~Katie – Mom to Mitchell |
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"I'm almost past sad, I'm so very happy that
God picked us to treasure this gift. And although I have gone through all
those periods of grief, I would pick having her for that brief period in
time to not having her at all! When I look at the slideshow, I see so much
love and it reminds me so much of those precious 17 hours and is very
rewarding... she is so much a part of me and I can't help but share her
precious little soul!" |
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-Lorie
- Mom to Angel Kia |
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"Sadly...Many
of the medical and professional community are woefully uninformed about
Trisomy 13. Outdated statistics and misinformation cause so much
hopelessness...and also cause many to withhold life giving treatment to a
child who deserves the same chance any typical kid would receive." |
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- Penny,
Devon's mom |
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"My daughter had Trisomy 13...a disorder they said was not compatible with life. I was then asked to decide if I wanted to continue my pregnancy or terminate it. I was not willing to give up on my daughter, a decision the perinatologist made clear they thought was the wrong one...If Caileigh was to die it wasn't going to be because of me....Caileigh is the greatest gift I have ever been granted in life and I carry her with me everywhere I go and in everything I do." |
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-Jackie, mom to Caileigh |
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"The joy far outweighs the struggles. I don't
know of anyone that wishes they had aborted their baby, but I have talked to
several who wish they had not." |
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-Anne
Jackson |
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"God's gifts are never what we expect. The
trick is not to be confused by the wrapping paper, but to be sure to open
the box." |
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- Paul - Dad to Angel Kelli
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"I hope that the increasing images of living children with Trisomy 13 will
wipe out the words 'incompatible with life.'" |
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- Jenn - Mom to Angel Kalysta |
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"To any of you, that may come across a
parent about to raise a Trisomy 13, let them; encourage them, give them hope
and peace that they will be blessed with the endurance to handle such a
special child. And could quite possibly be their "favorite" for every
reason." |
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-Barry & Deidri Alderson |
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"If you are reading this and your heart is breaking with the news that your child has Trisomy 13, please never give up on your child you never know what God will do, and you don't know how strong your little one will be... So if you are reading this and you have no hope please find hope and comfort in knowing, God is bigger than anything, and He's got things under control.” |
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~ Danielle - Mom to
Ivey |
"Thank you
very much for your site. As a Labor and Delivery
Nurse, I have been frequenting it often for
information.
I wish people had access to your site prior to make
the decision to terminate. Blood tests are accurate,
however, Ultrasounds only show so much, and you'd be
amazed how often they are wrong.
As a L&D Nurse I thank all the families who carry
their babies to term. You'd be amazed how every
delivery touches the life of your nurse."
Anonymous
3-12-07
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